I heard this quote on social media audio. I utilized it with all pictures of me as an affirmation. Believing we have a gift that nobody else has and it’s been given only to us to serve others and for the glory of God is our true essence. Late bloomers still bloom but our processContinue reading “Changing Everything”
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People Change Pictures Don’t
When I first started in the automotive business in the early 90s, I sold vehicles in Nashville TN. Across the street from the dealership was a strip club where I sold several vehicles to the dancers. One, in particular, bought several from me. I’ll never forget her. She was stunningly gorgeous. She had real authenticContinue reading “People Change Pictures Don’t”
Thrown Out Like Bubble Gum
I was listening to the great Wayne Dyer the other day. He was telling a story about how he and his brother had been orphaned. His dad was an alcoholic and abandoned them. Wayne spoke of his addiction to drugs and alcohol. He says he went to his father’s grave to piss on it whenContinue reading “Thrown Out Like Bubble Gum”
In Charge to Change
There’s so much value placed on social media. If you want to get a book deal the question comes up, “How many followers and subscribers do you have?” If you want to be monetized for your post, the same question applies. My take on this is I’m staying true to my commitment. I said fromContinue reading “In Charge to Change”
Why We Settle
Recently I was sharing part of my story with an acquaintance. As I spoke of my childhood abandonment, my relationships with narcissists, and my awakening, the new acquaintance looked at me as if they had no idea what I was saying. They finally said, “I had a perfect childhood.” I bought their statement. It’s notContinue reading “Why We Settle”
Generational Curses
I was asked the question the other day, “How is a generational curse broken?” That is a great question. I want to give you my interpretation and explanation of this question. First the term “generational curse” sounds worse than it is, it’s not a curse. Curses are intentional, generational curses are not intentional. The “curse”Continue reading “Generational Curses”
Survivors or Superheroes
I identify as a survivor. On each Dealing to Healing social media platform, my bio reads the same, “Survivor of abandonment, narcissists relationships, trauma & addiction.” The first definition of survivor is a person who survives, especially a person remaining alive after an event in which others have died. A second definition is a personContinue reading “Survivors or Superheroes”
Fear Not
Next month I’ll be certified as an Enneagram cohort. While I was in class last month, we learned when fear comes up in us, it often dictates our thoughts and actions. When we think of fear, we may think of physical harm or danger but the fear from our being is what surfaces when weContinue reading “Fear Not”
The Tribe Vibe
Finding and attracting our tribe is one of the best tools we can have for healing and our emotional health. It’s important to find those with who we can share our darkest truth and they don’t extinguish or diminish our pain by changing the subject or judging us for our truth. Find a tribe thatContinue reading “The Tribe Vibe”
Feeling Myself
I’ve been sharing some of my childhood trauma with you this week. Abandonment trauma and emotional neglect are real. Just because we never receive it as a child and sometimes through our adult years, that doesn’t mean we don’t crave and desire it. People who grow up with less still desire more. It’s why nobodyContinue reading “Feeling Myself”
Dealing to Healing 