We are all born with gifts. There are the gifts aka your talents and there are your spiritual gifts. The definition of talent is natural aptitude or skill. I’m just now recognizing and embracing my spiritual gifts. One of my talents is writing. I’ve had this talent from a young age, however, it was notContinue reading “Are You Utilizing Your Gifts, Talents and Serving Your Purpose?”
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Confess Our Faults One To Another
For 20 plus years I was in automotive and around 13 years of my automotive career I was a representative calling on automotive dealers. I called myself the bartender of automotive because I listened all day to their stories. Every manager, sales rep, porter, and office personnel had a story. I listened to their wildContinue reading “Confess Our Faults One To Another”
A Hero
I’m guessing that each one of you that are following me rather on my blog, social media, or personally, you connect with some part of my stories. I don’t know your story but that doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter if you were abandoned emotionally or physically, if you were raised by a narcissist or hadContinue reading “A Hero”
Removing The Toxic
I wish my younger self had known this quote 20, 30 years ago. If only I had told those people to sail on down the line who said “that’s your mother, that’s your sister, that’s your employer, that’s your friend”. If I had just not let those people shame and guilt me into letting theContinue reading “Removing The Toxic”
Narcissist Parents, Codependents, & More
This might be a deep dive for some but I want to turn on a light to everyone. When you are born to a parent that is a narcissist, you many times become codependent because you never have a choice not to pour into that parent. Because you are wanting to be accepted and loved,Continue reading “Narcissist Parents, Codependents, & More”
You Are Not Alone
Remember in school, you’d get your test back and you’d miss certain ones, or worse you made a bad grade? And you’d sit agonizing over it, looking around to see if anyone else missed the same questions or made a bad grade. And nobody wanted to say anything. Nobody wanted to be the first toContinue reading “You Are Not Alone”
The “Monday Blues” Are Real
When I came back to Atlanta in 2020 to work for an international company. I thought it was my dream job. I had applied multiple times and was on top of the world to get an opportunity with them. Within weeks of working for my “dream” company, I started having full-blown panic attacks. I’d neverContinue reading “The “Monday Blues” Are Real”
The Replacements
I had lunch with a dear friend the other day. I shared with her about the shift that continues in my life, my healing journey, and the changes right before my eyes. I also shared with her my disappointments and hurt. I said some know my story, my history, my abandonment, my narcissist relationships, andContinue reading “The Replacements”
The Do’s and Do Not’s of Healing
Healing is messy and healing from trauma is messier. When we carry pain for years, decades, since childhood, over a loss of a parent including abandonment it’s painful. Grieving over abuse, no matter if it’s physical, emotional, or sexual, it’s all traumatic. Grieving over childhood trauma from generational curses is so painful. If you takeContinue reading “The Do’s and Do Not’s of Healing”
Do What You Like
First I’d like to share that if you are trying to heal and recover from trauma, Dr. Glenn Doyle is my virtual doc. He says exactly how I feel and what I need to hear. I’ll tag him on social media for you. Over the last few weeks, I’ve been told, heard, and felt IContinue reading “Do What You Like”
Dealing to Healing 