#DealingtoHealing – Page 33 – Dealing to Healing

The Chosen One

I usually only post once a day but you’re in for a treat because my heart is full and I need to speak it. I’m speaking from love but I’m also speaking in real, raw truth. God can use ANYBODY! I was raised that ONLY those in the church are the only ones God canContinue reading “The Chosen One”

The Battle Is Not Yours

I was supposed to have a small outpatient surgery this coming Wednesday in Nashville. Last Monday I started getting roadblocks, not speed bumps to prevent me from having it. I was initially upset, frustrated and I still don’t understand why it’s not working out but I’m accepting it. The old me would’ve tried to beatContinue reading “The Battle Is Not Yours”

Abandonment Robs You

I wrote on Thursday, September 16 “A is for Abandonment as an Adult”. It hit a lot of you, got shared multiple times. I said I would write on it again but I did not expect this soon. If you or someone you know is physically or emotionally abandoned as a child, your perception isContinue reading “Abandonment Robs You”

Listen to me

I believe I’ve used up all my words this week. I have done a lot of talking but I’ve also done a lot of listening. Not just listening to business needs but listening to personal issues. I’ve met several people that have talked to me on a personal level. I’ve heard about bad breakups, aContinue reading “Listen to me”

A is for Abandonment as an Adult

I would like to share information and educate everyone from an adult’s perspective on what happens to a child that is abandoned. When a child no longer has their mother or father either physically or emotionally, it is not for that period that it affects the child. It continues to affect the child until theContinue reading “A is for Abandonment as an Adult”

Hey Jealousy

Jealousy and envy are not words I identify with easily. I’m generally always happy for someone who has more than me or is doing better than me. I’ve always viewed it as I was fortunate to be their friend so they could share their blessing with me. So when I speak on this subject ofContinue reading “Hey Jealousy”

Because you need more than love

To those who know me personally, it may come as a shock to you that I’ve had my boundaries pushed my whole life. I’m not going to get into a deep dive on me but I will tell you this from the bottom of my heart and please believe me when I say, that youContinue reading “Because you need more than love”

Face Value

Face value! The words I keep using and applying to people and situations. The definition means to accept someone or something just as it appears; to believe that the way things appear is the way they really are. I’m learning to stop asking why, or wondering. I’m learning to quit justifying or making excuses forContinue reading “Face Value”

9/11 Challenge

I’ve watched for the past week and in recent days, the interviews of children, spouses, and families that were traumatized from 9/11. It’s been 20 years later and they still have vivid memories and painful ones. They still have bad days when grief comes at the most unexpected time. As an empath, I can hardlyContinue reading “9/11 Challenge”

The Mask

Remember when we were children and we got dressed up for Halloween? I always looked forward to Halloween and trick or treating but I remember it was work. I remember working to put the costume together. Working to put the makeup on, keep the costume on and it was real work to keep the maskContinue reading “The Mask”