Tag Archives: #DealingtoHealing

I’ve been writing consistently for over a year now. If you’ve read my Dealing to Healing story, you know I started with #SundaySermon on Sundays. I thought you might enjoy a throwback on Thursday. This one is one of my favorites. Confession… I just recently listened to my first Podcast. I listened to an interviewContinue reading “LET YOUR ADDICTION FOR GROWTH BE STRONGER THAN YOUR ADDICTION FOR COMFORT #TBT”

Yesterday I gave 4 red flags 🚩 on a narcissist. It stirred and resonated with several of you. So today I’m giving you what I believe is the most damaging trait of a narcissist, the silent treatment. The silent treatment occurs when they are not in agreement with you. If they don’t like something youContinue reading “🚩The Silent Treatment 🚩”

I’ve only written about narcissists 3 times since I started blogging. I avoid it for several reasons but one of those is many do not truly understand the red flags, warning signs and traits. And although I want to educate and lights to come on, I am not a professional, a psychologist or counselor soContinue reading “Red Flags 🚩”

For decades I knew I had a magnet on me for addicts. I can go down the list workaholic, pothead, alcoholic, drug addict, sex addict, narcissist. I thought I was a “fixer”. As an empath and helper, I just knew I could help them get better. Nope! Wrong! Stop! Don’t even waste your time. YouContinue reading “Learn To Fly Again”

I have at least one person ask me weekly, “how are you so transparent?“ They say it in awe. Like they can’t comprehend it. I explain it like this. There are a few things, I’ve suppressed my stuff for decades. I’ve been transparent about my “fake life” but not my real life. Ya know thatContinue reading “Living your Best Life”

I’ve been thinking this week about the leading news story regarding the young woman who was found dead and her boyfriend is missing. It’s bothered me and triggered some pain for me due to being a survivor from a narcissist relationship(s). When I see the video of her crying, the “meltdown”, I know he crossedContinue reading “Why the Narcissist Crossed the Road”

Trouble doesn’t last but the trauma doesn’t stop. I heard someone say that quote and it resonated with me. We’ve all had our share of trouble. Everyone has experienced something. Childhood trauma, abandonment, emotional, physical, sexual abuse, death of a loved one, a job loss, a break-up or divorce, a health issue, trouble with theContinue reading “Trouble Doesn’t Last but the Trauma Doesn’t Stop”

I was talking with a friend in my tribe. I was basically having a one on one session about childhood abandonment, narcissist, and boundaries. I told a story about when a family member asked me for something and I told them “no”. I didn’t think about it, I didn’t stutter, I didn’t say “uh, letContinue reading “Boundaries will eliminate the Bull!”

I wrote about abandonment last week. I want to tell you today what an abandoned child does to get loved. They invest! A child that has been abandoned physically and/or emotionally, will invest their time, money, body, energy, and every fiber of their being to get loved. It starts as a child but can continueContinue reading “The Abandoned Invest with Zero Returns”