#DealingtoHealing – Page 27 – Dealing to Healing

🚩Recognize Red Flags 🚩

This week I’ve been blogging about sitting with ourselves, healing, and respecting people’s silence when they are not able to speak. While we are healing and aligning withour energy, intuition, and keeping the faith that each day we will be better, let’s not forget to recognize red flags as we communicate with others. If youContinue reading “🚩Recognize Red Flags 🚩”

As The Birds Of The Air

I recently lost an old friend of mine. We had been friends since 1994. We met in the car business and he got me into more stuff than I care to remember. Through the years like many friends, he has faded in and out of my life. Some years ago he got on social mediaContinue reading “As The Birds Of The Air”

The Sound Of Silence

I wanna talk to y’all about “silence”. Many times I am silent and my silence usually means I am drowning., overwhelmed, depressed, hurting, in pain and it means mostly I cannot speak. Sometimes when we cannot speak it means the pain is too great to say it. Maybe we can’t say it because it makesContinue reading “The Sound Of Silence”

Finding Your Gift

Someone asked me the other day how I knew that telling my story through writing and blogging was my purpose. After recapping my Dealing to Healing story on my blog website, I told them this story. About 10 years ago or so, shortly after Pinterest was born, I would get on Pinterest, and instead ofContinue reading “Finding Your Gift”

Feeling Is Healing

I watched Adele and her interview with Oprah last night. So much of what Adele said resonated with me that it brought me to tears. She talked about her father being an alcoholic which is an abandonment wound. A parent choosing an addiction is choosing that substance over the child. The parent may be physicallyContinue reading “Feeling Is Healing”

Hope Is In Hopeless

Now that I’ve had my awakening and I’m on my path of healing and spiritual journey. I realize that the entire world is wounded. Everyone has something! As a good friend of mine said, “Everyone is xxxxxx up whether they know it or not.” I know many have not discovered it, many are in denial,Continue reading “Hope Is In Hopeless”

Shorty

To those who know me personally, know that I’ve been on a mission and a little obsessed with my friend’s grandson that is missing due to his father did not return him from visitation last weekend. It’s not only resonated with me but it’s been a trigger. I was 10 years old when my motherContinue reading “Shorty”

It’s Like Fire Shut Up In My Bones

I tried to not blog today. Did you hear me, I tried to dismiss it so I could “take a break” but first let me say there are no breaks when you have a calling on your life. There are no breaks when you have dreams and purpose in your life. It’s a burning thatContinue reading “It’s Like Fire Shut Up In My Bones”

The Domino Effect

Yesterday I blogged about not giving your power away by having boundaries. You empower yourself by holding your boundaries or you give your power to others by not having boundaries. Here’s what else happens when you don’t have boundaries, resentment. Yes! Resentment comes when you don’t have boundaries. We allow someone to do something thatContinue reading “The Domino Effect”

Who’s Got The Remote Control?

More conversations….I frequently hear, “they can’t do that”, “he better not”, “she needs to do this or that”, we are putting our wish list on others that we have no control over what they do or don’t do. I have a friend that got hit on by a guy. She had zero interest in havingContinue reading “Who’s Got The Remote Control?”