Comfort Breeds Complacency

Being comfortable often breeds complacency and it will mess your life up in every corner. From the bedroom to the job, if you are complacent you will eventually lose. T.D. Jakes spoke on complacency last Sunday and he made so many valid points that it’s too many for me to share but I want toContinue reading “Comfort Breeds Complacency”

The Other Incest – Emotional

Covert incest, or emotional incest, occurs when a parent or caregiver relies on a child for the support that an adult partner would usually provide. They may also treat the child like a romantic partner. Covert incest is different from physical incest because it does not involve sexual abuse. Do you know someone that tellsContinue reading “The Other Incest – Emotional”

Never The Same

Today marks the first anniversary of my son’s father’s death. It also marks one year that life changed and will never be the same. Have you ever experienced “never the same”? I remember it so vividly. A surreal moment that changed everything moving forward. A time that life stands still. Seconds seem like minutes, minutesContinue reading “Never The Same”

Attachment Feeds Frustration

Expectation feed frustration. It is unhealthy attachment to people, things and outcomes we wish we could control; but don’t. – Steve Maraboli I had a conversation the other day with someone in the market for a house. As we discussed the crazy market of homes selling for the above asking price, prices above appraisals thatContinue reading “Attachment Feeds Frustration”

The Process of Awakening

This quote by Eckhart Tolle is perfect! It perfectly describes my awakening. It’s what I have blogged about for almost a year. The suffering we endure is not in vain. It has a purpose if we can only believe that through our suffering. I’ve had 2 very intimate and up-close conversations lately with a coupleContinue reading “The Process of Awakening”