We’ve lost more than we thought– and we’re more hurt than we realized.

Originally posted on Use Your Damn Skills:
Recovery is very often about grieving— which is confusing sometimes, because often we’re not quite sure what we are or should be grieving.? Many of us think about “grief” primarily in the context of losing a person or a pet who was in our lives.? Most people have…

How to Receive Your Predestined Moment

I can never say it enough, listen to your intuition, trust your gut, be in tune with your spirit and look for signs. They are always there, we often miss them because we are not consciously aware or not living in the moment. I recently heard a sermon regarding moments. It was so on pointContinue reading “How to Receive Your Predestined Moment”

The Awakening is In The Suffering

Week 1 is down in the books or should I say my calendar for my media detox. I’ve learned so much that I feel as if my head is going to explode. I’ve been reading a lot. I currently have 5 books in Kindle that I’m shuffling daily. I found my self-help book accidentally byContinue reading “The Awakening is In The Suffering”

Trauma is the Gateway Drug

I recently read something that said marijuana is not a gateway drug, neither is alcohol, nicotine, or caffeine. The gateway drug is trauma. Our gateway drug is neglect, abandonment, and betrayal and mostly from our childhood. I was in a restaurant after reading that and a middle-aged man was sitting at the bar in theContinue reading “Trauma is the Gateway Drug”

Give The Best Of You, Not The Rest Of You

If I could give you anything from all my experiences, I’d give you a gift of self-care. It is a must that you take care of yourself. We are all exhausted mentally and emotionally. Since I’ve been on my media detox, my quality of life has improved. I’m not waking up to how many peopleContinue reading “Give The Best Of You, Not The Rest Of You”

Don’t Force Pieces That Don’t Fit

My entire life I have been in sales and it’s been protocol to repeatedly ask and sometimes beg for business. It’s part of a sales role, especially when you’re in a competitive industry. I find it exhausting to ask, beg or make people do something that they don’t want to do. I’ve also been aContinue reading “Don’t Force Pieces That Don’t Fit”

Religious People Killed Jesus

Last week I watched a documentary on HBO Max called “Way Down”. I was interested in it because it was a cult-based church located in my backyard in Nashville TN. I was unaware of the church Remnant Fellowship Church much less a religious cult in Brentwood Tennessee. My attention was first brought to them whenContinue reading “Religious People Killed Jesus”