Day 13 in 2022

We are only 13 days into 2022 and I’ve learned so much already. Some things I knew but have been reminded of this year.

I’ve learned that people don’t apologize if they are not sorry for their actions.

Saying sorry doesn’t mean anything if the action doesn’t change.

People lie to themselves so therefore they lie to you.

Miscommunication is the root of misunderstandings.

Not everyone thinks like you, believes like you or feels like you. That’s why there’s 31 flavors.

People who don’t take responsibility for their actions or lack of have victim mindsets.

Not everyone can love you as you need to be loved. It’s okay, others love you more than most so they make up for the ones that can’t love you as needed.

Live in the present. Worrying or grieving yesterday or being anxious for tomorrow is a waste. Both are out of our control.

Stop taking responsibility for people. You cannot control their thoughts, feelings or perceptions. If you are doing your best with them and it’s not enough for them then that’s not your issue.

Be still so you can be present and spiritually aware. Look for signs and synchronicity. They might be the answer to your prayer.

Everyone doesn’t deserve your time, attention or an explanation. Plan accordingly.

If we allow ourselves to suffer and acknowledge it, we can gain insight so that our spirit can be restored and renewed.

Forgive yourself for not knowing. Free yourself from shame. Be free of judgement.

Published by Dana

Creative writer about my life and life lessons. Survivor of abandonment, addiction, narcissist relationships, and trauma. Still dealing while I'm healing. Thank you Jesus!

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