If you haven’t read my story about how Dealing to Healing was born then you may not know that my goal when the blog was born was just not to write and heal me but to help others. The goal was to help just one, one post at a time. I pray that prayer each time I hit the “publish” button. There are times and days that I think I don’t know if I’m helping anyone but I know it’s not a reason not to write. It’s my purpose and if nobody reads it then I’m still doing what I am supposed to do.
Seems like each time I say those words to myself “nobody is reading this”, then boom someone comments, texts, or tells me in person how much I’ve helped them, how they read everything, and it overwhelms my heart and brings tears to eyes. I cry not for my ego but just to think that God took a person with zero education in writing or journalism, a girl that cut her teeth on the automotive business and never knew I had this in me, that it is me that God used to help others. I feel like my heart is going to explode sometimes because it is overwhelming when I think about where I have been in my life. The hell I have survived.
I want to tell you that think you don’t know if you have a purpose, that’s a lie! I want to tell you who have zero education on your passion, your gifts, your talents, don’t let that stop you. It doesn’t matter if you have education, formal training, or zero business sense. Do not let that stop you. Those voices you hear that talk negative talk is your old programming. It’s the voices of the past or as the church folks say, “that’s the devil telling you a lie!” However you want to believe it, just believe it.
Don’t you dare give up. Don’t let anyone stop you. That narcissist you are with will gaslight you to make you think you’re too crazy to serve your purpose. Your parents that don’t believe in you, don’t let that stop you. I had zero encouragement to do anything in life. You find that fight in you, it’s there, and you fight your way to do your purpose. I promise you this, God did not create you to be in a miserable situation. You are a child of a God and you wear your crown proudly. Pick your heads up kings and queens your crown is falling.